That's chine walk. About the only advice I can give is seat time to get used to it. I wouldn't recommend trying to drive through it. Get comfortable with it at a speed then go a little faster and get used to driving it at that speed and so on. It took me probably 10 hours of nothing but driving mine before I was comfortable throughout the powerband. The more you drive it, the more it will become second nature.
As far as the hole shot, every boat / prop is a little different. I have my jackplate set at about 3, trim just above all the way down, and tabs all the way down. My 27 Bravo spins up to about 3800 before it grabs and the boat jumps out of the hole. The rest is a process of going up. First tabs all the way, then trim about a little less than half, then jackplate up to about 4.5. I've got it down to sitting still to 74 in about a minute and I'm still learning.
Dwayne
P.S. 04 2200 with a 250EFI and 10" Bobs jackplate.