I troubleshot it today. New fuse, I checked power leaving the truck, all good. I cut the blue wire going to the solenoid and ohmed the blue wire going to trailer backup lights to ground, it ohmed good, open, so no short. I then ohmed the blue wire going to the solenoid and the white ground wire on the solenoid and it shorted to 18.1 ohms. Idk what the solenoid coil should ohm so can’t say it’s bad or not. I also took a 12v battery and hooked to trailer reverse light and ground, the lights lit up nice and bright so I really don’t think it’s a wiring issue. I’m leaning toward solenoid.