I guess I'm at a bit of a loss on your speed issue. One of your first posts stated that you had some prop damage...
Is that still the case? Just wondering because you mention some (significant?) vibration issues. You've probably already done the following but, if not:
1) Make sure the prop is within spec.
2) Make absolutely certain (visually, not just the gauge) that your motor is trimming properly during operation.
3) Closely inspect the hull to make sure there are no defects that might be causing drag or allowing water intrusion.
And finally, get that motor back down to where you're not having water pressure or over-rev (alarm) issues... It won't live long if either of those is happening on a regular basis.