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    Free, free at last

    Divorce was finalized today. That's 32 years in the crapper and I'm totally fine with it because it's 10+ years overdue. Yes, it was expensive but worth every penny.

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    Congratulations,IGuess
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    Can’t imagine. If you’re happy then congratulations

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    Been there done that ----if it was that bad congrats !!
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    Shame you couldn't work it out after 32 years but since you couldn't congrats!
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    Well good luck to you moving forward. Hoping you are happy and if not that you find more happiness in the near future.

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    So 22 years was good?

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    So sad

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    Quote Originally Posted by LateralLine View Post
    So 22 years was good?
    Sure, for me the good outweighed the bad and I still wanted to grow old with her. I'm not convinced she was ever happy. The past 8 years have absolutely sucked (hence me having almost 20K posts) but that was because of external forces. If we'd had a solid marriage, maybe we could have drawn on that strength to face the other challenges. Being simply roommates with your wife doesn't doesn't give you any more strength than being alone
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    Good riddance it sounds like !
    cheers to happier times ahead for you
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    As Aerosmith sang “I’m back in the saddle again.”
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    If she let you have the boat, you’ll be fine.

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    I parted ways with my ex after 28 years, it only cost me about $400k. That was 10 years ago, I recovered just fine, her on the other hand is broke and living with family.

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    Sorry it went that route but, "a mans gotta do what a mans gotta do"

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    Sorry you both couldn't make it work. Been there done that and it cost me a lot but I'm now happier than I have ever been.

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    Bitter/sweet.... I was pulling for you guys to work it out over the last 10 years... I hope you are happier from now forward.

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    Better days ahead

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    I've been through it so I know how you feel. Congrats!!!

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    It's darned hard to find that right wimmins that can put up with us men in most cases. If you're happier without her, you did right. Happiness is the operative word whether it be being married or single. I wish you the best in your life ahead. Keep trudging on!
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