How many times have we felt we can't do something because of situation x or y? I think we were all made with relative strengths and weaknesses but I don't believe that equates to the outcome in many cases. Over time, I have observed behaviors of those that are fit vs those that are not. I share my top 2 observations and hope others will add.
#1- Structured Active: The fit person has a routine and that routine has activity. For me, this means I have a cup of coffee, lay out breakfast, clean up any dishes and check my phone for like 2 minutes. Then I hit the gym, then I eat breakfast then I go (work, fish, golf, hike,do a house project, etc). If I'm not working, I'm tired and ready to set for the first time at about 2pm. By contrast, my friends who get out of bed and move to a chair in the den or text me at 10am about some movie struggle. Even old school farmers were fit because the job forced structured active- livestock needs to be tended too.
#2- Sustainabiliy: Sustainability wins over temporary perfection. Fit people don't just get ready for a 5k race then quit; they do it as ongoing way of life. It is better to walk at home then to join a gym 30 minutes across town that you will visit 2 times monthly related to time constraints. No need to start a complex diet that will never get simple enough to sustain. Time and consistancy can win for many vs flaming out.
These two items put together over time will improve many people's energy levels and reduce weight.