There are 2 threads about finding the right trialer height for towing, I was one of the posters. Here is how you find the correct height:
Measure reciever hitch height: On level ground measure from the ground to top of hole(box hole)= A Exp...20 inches
Measure trailer coulper: On level ground measure from ground to bottom of coupler. Coupler= B Exp...17 inches.
Subtract A-B= C...C, correct hieght. A20-B17=C3,,,,You would need a 3 inch drop.
For odd C number get as close as you can!! I found this on etarilers and it worked for me and my trailer. My trailer was 2 1/2 inches to high.