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    Lost my best bud yesterday.

    I had to have a vet come to the house yesterday and lay my boy to rest (lymphoma). I've never had to do it that way before and I must say that it was heart breaking. I've lost several dogs, but suddenly or to just old age. This one was special, he literally helped me get through the toughest time in my life with loosing my mom to cancer when she was in her 50's and an ugly divorce at the same time. Muggsy could stare into my soul. I guess I'm just a big old 225 lb wuss, but I am literally sick to my stomach and am at a loss as to how to cope with it. Everyone says get another one, but unless they can guarantee he outlives me, there is no way on earth I would go through this again. Just reaching out to a great bunch of guys for support. No matter which side we are on it seems we all come together when we need to. Thanks, Chris
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    Dude, loosing one always sucks.. Just remember, he was only here for a portion of your life, but you were there for him his entire life!
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    Man so sorry for your loss. It's tough. Lost both of mine within a couple of months of each other. If you are a true pet lover, they become more like kids than pets. Once again, so sorry.

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    So sorry for your loss
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    We have put down a couple of our dogs. Doesn't get easier. Take some time to process your loss then look at some rescue shelters. There is a dog there waiting to rescue you.
    Please release me,let me go.

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    Completely understand! Lost our boy last September, right after our twins left for college, and the wife and I still aren't over it yet. We did get another dog, but it's definitely hard. Positive thoughts and a pet prayer for you sir!
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    I feel for you. Man’s best friend.

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    It's tough, and we swear that'll be the last pet every time we have to do it. Then we see a puppy and it's all over. Prayers that time heals your heart.

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    Sorry man! I've had to have one put down, and she nearly wrecked me! As has been said, give it some time and find another one that fits you. You'll know when the time is right.

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    Sorry for your loss its tough losing a pet.
    I myself said after the last one no more I wont go though it again well they found me went from one to two rescues that stole my wifes and my hearts and they needed a home and even if I didn't want to admit it or believe it we needed them too. They will never replace my last dog or his memories but they filled that empty space left and I couldn't be without them.

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    Had to do the same thing 2 years ago, We had a Basset hound for 13 years, I thought I could handle it pretty easy, but after the Vet got here and gave him the shot the reality hit me and it was very hard. I just had to remember that for a dog, that old boy had a good life till the end. We had him cremated, so in some weird way , he is still with us. Wife wanted another, no way I will have another for a very long time.

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    I hate to read these stories but they can be an outlet for a broken heart. Having lost several, unfortunately I know how it feels, and I hope it helps you writing about it. So very sorry for your loss, each one brings tears to my eyes and a big lump in my throat.

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    I think we all feel your pain. I know you gave him a great life, so try to take some comfort in that. You will know if there comes time for another one. In the meantime, hang in there.

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    Thanks guys! it helps just knowing that ya'll have gone through it and survived. I would have never thought that I would struggle so bad with it, but right now I'm having a hard time functioning. lost my Ausie (Muggsy's other best bud) a year ago. He was 16 and went in his sleep. It hurt, but nothing compared to this one.
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    Sorry to hear about your buddy. I like my dog more than 99% of the humans I meet, including relatives.

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    Losing a pet is never easy. Sorry for your family's loss.

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    Sorry, Chris.

    There's zero shame in being heartbroken over losing your pal... Most of us have been there.

    I think Kodiak offers some wonderful advice...

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    We have put down a couple of our dogs. Doesn't get easier. Take some time to process your loss then look at some rescue shelters. There is a dog there waiting to rescue you.
    There's no apostrophe

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    I had to do the same to my cat last year. It still hurts. You will be in my prayers.

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    Sorry for your loss Been there and it's horrible. They truly do become family. I always said never again and now we have 2. I just cherish the many memories I had with my lab.

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    Muggsy could stare into my soul. I like that description. You will get through it, each day it gets a little easier.

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