If no assets or kids move out.
Do the paper work later.
If no assets or kids move out.
Do the paper work later.
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better than the other options .. er ..option !
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Read my post #120. I divorce MIGHT be the only course, but it’s actually not likely. I’m saddened by so many talking crap about women, their former love, wife’s mom, etc. Guess this is the new “Christian” approach ... divorce, damnation and trash talk.Originally Posted by hatcreek
And to answer your question, if she was banging the neighbor, I’d seek counseling. For one thing, the promise was “for better or worse, in sickness and in health”. I’d say it’s worse and she’s sick, which means you STILL have to make every attempt.
Sure would be nice to not see any additional bashing. It’s not very honorable.
no way I could be with anyone that cheated on me. There’s 0% chance I could trust somebody after that.Read my post #120. I divorce MIGHT be the only course, but it’s actually not likely. I’m saddened by so many talking crap about women, their former love, wife’s mom, etc. Guess this is the new “Christian” approach ... divorce, damnation and trash talk.
And to answer your question, if she was banging the neighbor, I’d seek counseling. For one thing, the promise was “for better or worse, in sickness and in health”. I’d say it’s worse and she’s sick, which means you STILL have to make every attempt.
Sure would be nice to not see any additional bashing. It’s not very honorable.
This is the LAST place I would ask something like that, Hope she doesn't read this board....LOL
Why not? Lot of guys have been through it. Nothing wrong with asking advice about it from a bunch of guys who have went through it.
And to answer your question, if she was banging the neighbor, I’d seek counseling. For one thing, the promise was “for better or worse, in sickness and in health”. I’d say it’s worse and she’s sick, which means you STILL have to make every attempt.
Sure would be nice to not see any additional bashing. It’s not very honorable.
Oh, there was plenty of counseling... In fact, there was enough that it was determined between the ex- and the lady shrink that it was MY fault she was doing it.
SO much more I could add from those days, but time and forgiveness have rendered those things water under the bridge and it would serve no purpose.
Oh, and please remember that when you deign to judge others through statements like this...
...that it might be construed as bashing and/or not very honorable.
Who controls John Gill?
Banging the neighbor....pack your shit and move in there lady!!Read my post #120. I divorce MIGHT be the only course, but it’s actually not likely. I’m saddened by so many talking crap about women, their former love, wife’s mom, etc. Guess this is the new “Christian” approach ... divorce, damnation and trash talk.
And to answer your question, if she was banging the neighbor, I’d seek counseling. For one thing, the promise was “for better or worse, in sickness and in health”. I’d say it’s worse and she’s sick, which means you STILL have to make every attempt.
Sure would be nice to not see any additional bashing. It’s not very honorable.
know that you are in a battle! no matter what get that thru your head and get help, an attorney trust me and yes its worth it
No. I’d donate her shit to someone who needs it and will appreciate it. Let him buy her new shit..
I may sound disgruntled but I’m not. I’m a realist. This stuff happens every day. So these days I’m just real about it. I’m very lucky to have the woman I do, but second go round the here will be no second chances..
Going thru similar
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Just something else TJ is better at.
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I married the spawn of Satan. I was tormented in Hell by her for 23 years. Both my kids even came to me and told me that I needed to divorce her before she killed me by her ways.
Yea, she took everything I had and even after 12 years after our divorce....I am much better off, mentally, physically, financially.
I still pray every day for her. I pray her brakes give out going down hill, I pray something falls out of the sky and hits her, I pray, that she meets a dog that is rabid and starving.
The point here is, you will look back on it a few years later and smile you escaped a life of miserable substance and see that life is more enjoyable doing things you enjoy.
p.s...... Really I don't pray those things on her, I will never allow her to control my emotions again. I'm free of her...thank you Lord for that!
I see you survived 10 more years with your ex than I did with mine. It says alot when she tells her mom and the man that raised her how horrible I was and a bunch of other lies. Then 3 days after she moved out my ex inlaws drove buy her new place and seen her new man in her driveway. Needless to say I'm still very close with my ex inlaws.. My primary fishing partner is the man who raised her from the age of 3.
When I am approached about someone thinking about a divorce I (to there surprise) always suggest them to do everything in there power to keep it together, but there comes a point when no matter what you do or try it just wont work. It takes 2 sides to make it work period.
Yep he's got all the answers.
To to the op, even if one of you offers to want to try and make it work, once the cat is let outa the bag,....consider it. You don't want to have any regrets after sour feelings and stubbornness pass.
Tj is a hypocrite...you know this. It's in his DNA.Oh, and please remember that when you deign to judge others through statements like this...
...that it might be construed as bashing and/or not very honorable.
Not many people know this but TJ beat up Chuck Norris once too. He’s just that awesome
Congrats man. Good stuff there. To the OP try your best to work it out.
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I’m at least smart enough to realize that ALL men came from women.
When you disparage them, you are disrespecting your own mother.
If you’re OK with it, keep the degrading talk up. And send her a copy.
All failed relationships are at least 50% your own fault, no other way.
Either in pairing choice, personal behavior, etc. Think about it a bit.
Instead of being an a$$hole about it, realize that we are all human.
Pick up the pieces, act gracious and move forward with forgiveness.
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