That's a heavy load. Go fishing as soon as you get water that ain't frozen. Stay relatively sober, an addled brain doesn't always make good choices.
That's a heavy load. Go fishing as soon as you get water that ain't frozen. Stay relatively sober, an addled brain doesn't always make good choices.
Man i am very sorry to hear this. I will keep you in my prayers.
Going through divorce myself after 18 years together. Her choice. No kids so it's not too messy. Just sucks. You all mention the emotional rollercoaster and the exhaustion. I am there. Just want to go to bed when I'm home. Wife is still in the house but we are just roommates now.
NoCAL
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Hey, look on the bright side, you are getting the hell out of Ohio. Happy trails ahead and don’t look back.
been there Brother---hang in there ---will get better
1988 Ranger 364V
150HP Merc Black Max
Being a Dad is the most important thing ever. Concentrate on that not on the negative. Good luck.
You can lead a horticulture,
but you can't make her think.
Good luck!!
Bill Perry
Zwolle, LA (Toledo Bend)
bpicinc_2000@yahoo.com
2001 ZX-250 VMAX 225. HDS-9 Carbon, HDS-7Carbon, 3D Sonar, HB 998c hd si, Active Target, MG Tour Pro 36v, 12" Slide Master
USN, USS Newport News CA-148
I'll be the bad guy here. If..and I hope it doesn't end with the Big D. Make sure you tell your Atty about any 20 Year Pensions and Social Security Income that she might be getting in the future. If you have the Kiddo's, I'm sure your a great Dad, maybe Alimony might be in the picture. People like to say they will stay friends after a Divorce but it is very difficult. Some guys ill come on here and " well my wife and I were able to " MOST Don't. So make sure you look out after you and the kids first. Please don't read this as a dig on your wife, more as a self preservation thing. I just went thru some serious shit with my wife and we worked through it thanks to about 8 guys who IM'ed me with faith and knowledge. According to those 8 guys and you know who you are (Thank You), Faith and Dialogue were they Key.
This. Prayers for your family.Originally Posted by n2ratfishin
"If People Concentrated on the Really Important Things in Life, There'd be a Shortage of Fishing Poles." - Doug Larson
"Peace is not the absence of turmoil but the presence of God" Jo-Ann Thomack
You have recognized this tough situation. You are meeting it head on. Divorce is tough and there is always enough blame to go around.
So, don't even get into the blame game. Stay strong for your children and for yourself.
As for your soon to be ex-wife just remember she is still the Mother of your children and treat her accordingly.
Prayers for all involved here and for sure better days are ahead.
I'd go buy a new boat...and take my boys fishin
2020 Skeeter ZX150
Sorry to read this. Prayers sent.
Praying for a Cure
So sorry, be patient as it will get better with time.
Hard to hear but the military is tough on marriages,
No truer words spoken......Been there...
No matter what, do your best to always remain a "team" with her when it comes to raising your boys.
The rest will sort itself out.
Lifting y'all.
It is the first day of the rest of your life however every life is lived the same way, one day at a time. I've never been where you are but I have had "life" in my 70 years and have found that if I break it down into it's smallest bite it's easier to digest.
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Time heals all wounds... Tom Hanks in Castaway had some good advise. Gotta keep breathing. You never know what the tide will bring in...
It sounds like your doing exactly what you need to do. Be a father for your kids. Good luck stay strong.
Russell Winneberger
2002 Stratos 20 XL
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