30 years together and I am falling out of love. What do you do?
30 years together and I am falling out of love. What do you do?
Talk to her. Try to make it work by working on it
Originally Posted by ChampioNman
No, this is actually is a serious question. Not really looking for foolish answers.
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Ooops...
My apologies, sir (It is the Lounge, however)...
If it matters; I endured ~15 years after that happened (because of infidelity on her part), just to make sure I didn't miss any time with my son as he grew up, before divorcing after 27+ years of marriage.
Have a more amicable relationship with the ex- now, than during those 15 years.
Best of luck to you.
Last edited by hatcreek; 10-25-2018 at 05:38 PM.
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You or her? Mine was her. She left me for another guy. Abandoned her only child in the process.
Good luck is all I can offer. I tried everything I could think of and nothing has been seemingly good enough for her. I keep hoping she will pull her head out of her ass.. if nothing else for the little guy, because he has done nothing wrong.
Need to dig deep and think about what happened. 30 years is a long time. Every relationship has ups/downs. Key is communication and talk to your partner. Best of luck. Hope you can sort it out.
Steve
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Curious, who do you think changed? (You or her)
Tough call, but life is life, live it now. If its that bad, get going because it wont get better. Then dont look back. Been there, done that.
Me, and there is no other woman. Just don't enjoy any of it any more. We've just gone in 2 directions. She tells me she loves me every day, I'm just not feeling the same.
Been like this for some time. Guess I'm just at the point of saying something.
30 years, you owe it to her and yourself to let her know your feelings sooner rather than later. Try to keep it factual and try to keep the emotion out of the conversation, which will be really hard.
Think long and hard before saying it. Try talking to a counselor, pastor or a good friend. Wild horses can’t put back words once spoken
Respectfully,
Captain Rab
V1CO 1:27 But God has chosen the foolish things of the
world to put to shame the wise; and God has
chosen the weak things of the world to put to
shame the things which are mighty
Can you afford it?
If you are coming here and asking for opinions, I'm thinking you already fell and are not falling. You really need to think and do what you want to and what you feel is right for you and her, not what someone else says or thinks. I have been with my wife for 31 years and am still on my honeymoon but that can change, either for her or I, in a minute and I know it. Best of luck but I'm afraid it's a decision only you can make.
I believe I can.
It is the lounge, it's what happens. If you ain't got the feeling then either get counseling if you think there is any hope of saving it or end it why be miserable?
Don’t ask her. Go talk to a counselor
You can censor my speech but not my thoughts or will
We are living in a time where intelligent people are being silenced so stupid people won't be offended
Something kept you there for 30 years! Perhaps you still love her but you are not IN LOVE with her. There is a difference. It is worth trying to find that spark again. You’ve invested too much to make a real bad mistake.
Kids ages ? If any ?
