My car is handicap right now and I am trying to tow my boat with another car, problem is the other car only has a 4 prong trailer harness/wire, my trailer is a dual axle with brakes and i know the other 5th wire on the harness is linked to the back up light for braking the trailer when backing up. I know i can use the pin and over ride the brakes being lock when backing up but am i safe to tow without the 5th plug...???