Nailed itQuit treating everyone with kid gloves. I'm 52....there was no ADHD. There was a mother and father who cared about me being the best citizen I could be. I was young we all colored outside the lines. I saw a belt , got an ass whooping or my mother looked me straight in the eyes and say boy you might be bigger and stronger but don't close those eyes at night. Enough to scare me straight. I was petrified of my parents if I screwed up.
The worry today is if kids aren't perfect they are told its this , that or the other thing. They march them into the doctor and beg and plead make him/her just like Suzy or Johnny. Social media is another reason...don't want to end up on Facebook, instagram, TikTok making your child the best person they can be....love hurts sometimes. I, personally have people close to me and this cousin has this and this one has that ailment and needs this drug. What they REALLY needed was parents that took control when their kids couldn't.
Now please this wasn't meant to be a broad brush that I painted with. I fully understand there are mental issues been managed in all age brackets. For those folks I'm sorry if I've offended you.