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    How to convince the wife?

    Our manager just sent out a note saying our site in Alpharetta GA needs support and since we are a little slow they'd like to have someone go down there. I just checked Google Maps and it's only 20 minutes from the closest launch on Lake Lanier.

    So, how do I convince my wife that I should take this one? Do you think she'd be suspicious when I hook up the boat the night before I leave?

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    Assuming you've lived in NY your entire life if you are looking for reasons to move to Georgia. That would be a no brainer for me.
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    Leave under the cover of darkness.....

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    what would be her argument against it
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    Tell you were told you had no choice
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    Tell her the truth opportunity only comes around so often.

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    Is it a permanent move or just temporary? If temporary, hey honey the boss says I have to go to Georgia for a week.

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    Why ask...if she gives you any lip show her the pimp hand.

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    May as well fish while you can after Memorial day you won't be out there on the weekend after 10 AM. Good luck with the possible move.

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    “Work is what puts food on the table, now give me hand hooking up the boat please”.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bsktball55 View Post
    Is it a permanent move or just temporary? If temporary, hey honey the boss says I have to go to Georgia for a week.
    Probably should have mentioned that...it would be temporary...a couple weeks to a couple months.

    Arguments for..."Stepping up" always looks good to the Sr. Management, and as mentioned, 20 minutes from Lake Lanier. I've never fished south of the Finger Lakes in NY.
    Arguments against...we have 3 kids 6, 8, and 10 and I get them on the bus in the morning before heading to work. That would put all the burden on her, and probably up our child care costs. She's a teacher and has to be to work before their bus comes.

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    Tell her that you have to put the boat in the shop (make something up for why).
    Drop the boat off at a friends house
    Leave for your trip (pick boat up on the way).
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    I guess I am the honest one. TALK to her about it. See if you can have one of your parents or an aunt stay for that period. Go and have fun! Lanier is normally pretty good right now if the rain would stop! Get ready for some serious traffic too...

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    Quote Originally Posted by 519DVX View Post
    Probably should have mentioned that...it would be temporary...a couple weeks to a couple months.

    Arguments for..."Stepping up" always looks good to the Sr. Management, and as mentioned, 20 minutes from Lake Lanier. I've never fished south of the Finger Lakes in NY.
    Arguments against...we have 3 kids 6, 8, and 10 and I get them on the bus in the morning before heading to work. That would put all the burden on her, and probably up our child care costs. She's a teacher and has to be to work before their bus comes.
    A little fishing is not worth leaving her with 4 kids on her own......
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    Take the boat and have fun, you only die once, just hope you’re a smooth talker to the wife!

    Depending on the time of day, with traffic, Alpharetta to Lake Lanier can take an hour, but it’s an easy drive down GA400.

    Right now, the Lake is at its 2nd highest water lever ever, and it’s raining as I type this. https://www.11alive.com/mobile/artic...b-c350f975e742

    Try to make it happen if you can!

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    Just tell her it would look good to your boss. They really need you to go.
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    Tell her it is either fish in the off hours or sit at a bar and oogle women.

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    Take the kids with you

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    Find out how long it really is going to be. 2-3 weeks, just tell her it's important for your career to go. 2-3 months is a lot bigger deal considering the kids situation, this sounds soft but I honestly don't think I would do that with three young kids.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bdog7198 View Post
    A little fishing is not worth leaving her with 4 kids on her own......
    Bdog already has her new boyfriend listed as another kid. Lol
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