Our neighbor I have known for 22 years since I moved in to the neighborhood. He’s an architect and a bit of a recluse. He loves my wife and they always chat and shoot the breeze when she get the mail. He always wants to feed our animals if we go away for a couple of days. We pay him with tomatoes and squash.
he has been more reclusive lately and somewhat disoriented when talking with my wife. This evening he went off on her, unprovoked and cursed and screamed at her.
I went over and knocked just to see if he may talk with me. He screamed and cursed through the door about calling his lawyer and police.
I just backed off and we called his niece who lives here, he has no other relatives living. She called the police to do a wellness check for him. I spoke with the dispatch later and she said he refused to open his door for the officer and was uncooperative.
she said there is nothing they can do but drive by and periodically check on him. It’s sad because this behavior isn’t him. He is a nice guy, weird but kind and always loved my wife.
we only hope he settles down and comes back around to “normal”. I don’t know if he is off meds or has had a small stroke or what, but it is so frustrating to not be able to do anything and so sad that he has no one else to help.