Originally Posted by
mixermark
Of course, boys need role models. Do they have to have them in the house with them? Absolutely not!
Is it best? Sure. I had a wonderful Dad, and a great Mom, who loved each other and lived out a great example of marriage for 38 years until my dad passed. Great way to grow up.
Am am I any better of a "man" because of that?
NO- I am the man I am because I choose to be.
Any boy can can choose to be a good man, even if he is an orphan, raised by a mom and a dad, or by a single mother, or two moms, or two dads, or a pack of wild wolves.
You grow up, learn lessons along the way, decide who you want to be, and you be that person. When you fall short of who you want to be, you get up the next day and try again to do better.
Some have it easier, but at the end of the day, it's about personal responsibility and doing what you know to be right by the rest of the humans we share a planet with.
I know just as many jagoffs who grew up in a nuclear family as didn't.